Questions worth asking
Curated question lists and conversation guides — for drawing out the stories in your family, your friends, and the people you love. From the team behind GetToKnow.
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120 Questions to Get to Know Someone
120 warm, natural questions to get to know someone — from new friends and first dates to partners, coworkers, kids, teens, and family.
150 Deep Conversation Starters
These 150 deep conversation starters invite honest talks about values, love, fear, identity, regret, mortality, and who we're still becoming.
Family & legacy
100 Questions to Ask Your Dad
100 questions to ask your dad that get him actually talking — his boyhood, his work, his loves, his regrets — ordered so the conversation deepens as you go.
100 Questions to Ask Your Mom (to Really Know Her)
These 100 questions to ask your mom uncover her childhood, friendships, loves, dreams, and the stories she most wants your family to remember.
40 Questions to Ask Your Parents Before It's Too Late
Forty thoughtful questions to ask your parents before they die, created to preserve their stories, wisdom, traditions, and voices with care.
50 Meaningful Questions to Ask Your Grandparents
50 meaningful questions to ask your grandparents — starting easy, ending tender — plus how to actually get them talking and keep what you hear.
One good question
Deep dives on single questions worth asking well — why they work, how to ask them, and what to do with the answer.